When you’re planning your wedding, you’re probably scrolling Instagram, pinning inspiration, and saving photos that make your heart stop for just a second. You fall in love with the way the images look – the colors, the editing style, the overall vibe.

But here’s the thing no one really talks about:
The way your photographer makes you feel matters just as much as the photos themselves.

The Mistake Most Couples Make

Most couples choose their photographer based solely on the final photos which is understandable. Of course you want images you love. But what often gets overlooked is what it’s like to be in those photos.

Your photographer is with you for nearly your entire wedding day – from getting ready to the last dance. The way they guide you, support you, and read the room directly impacts not only your mood in the moment, but how you’ll feel every time you look back at your photos.

If you feel rushed, tense, or uncomfortable during portraits? That energy shows.
If you feel calm, seen, and supported? That shows, too.

Why the Experience Matters

When your photographer knows how to quietly step back and document, when to gently guide, and when to read the unspoken moments, you’ll relax into the day. You’ll actually enjoy being photographed and that’s what allows your images to feel like you.

Beautiful photos aren’t just about editing style. They’re about presence.
They’re about trust.
They’re about having someone beside you who knows how to keep things calm, easy, and real – even if the day feels a little chaotic at times.

Choosing a Photographer You’ll Trust

So yes, fall in love with the photos. But also ask yourself:

• Can I picture this person in the room while I’m getting ready?
• Will they make me feel comfortable in front of the camera?
• Do I trust them to handle the emotional, chaotic, once-in-a-lifetime moments?

When you find someone who checks all those boxes, the images will mean so much more – because you’ll remember how good it felt to be in them.

Ready to work with someone who keeps things calm, easy, and real?

Reach out here – I’d love to hear about your day and what matters most to you.