Choosing your wedding photographer can feel overwhelming. There are endless Instagram feeds, countless editing styles, and a million opinions on what matters most. But here’s the truth: it’s not just about pretty photos – it’s about how it feels to be in them.

Before you book anyone, here are three questions to ask yourself to make sure you end up with photos that not only look incredible but feel like you.

1. Do I Love Their Full Galleries – Not Just the Highlight Reel?

Scrolling through Instagram or Pinterest only shows you a photographer’s “greatest hits.” It’s easy to fall in love with a single image – the lighting, the pose, the edit – but what about the rest of the day?

Ask to see a full gallery.
That’s where you’ll see how they capture every part of a wedding: the quiet getting-ready moments, family photos, ceremony details, the chaotic dance floor, and everything in between. You want consistency – not just a handful of “wow” shots. *Also remember that someone else’s wedding gallery is not exactly how your wedding gallery will look – every wedding is unique and special.

2. Can I Picture Myself Feeling Comfortable Around Them?

Your photographer will be by your side during some of the most emotional, vulnerable moments of your life – getting dressed, exchanging vows, crying happy tears, dancing with your people.

Ask yourself:

• Do I feel relaxed in their presence?
• Would I trust them to be around my closest friends and family?
• Can I see myself laughing, crying, and just being myself with them?

Comfort is everything. When you’re at ease, your photos won’t just look natural, they’ll feel natural.

3. Will They Help With the “Unspoken” Parts of the Day?

Great photographers don’t just show up and snap photos. They help guide the day so you can actually enjoy it. Things like:

• Timeline planning that keeps things stress-free and ensures great light.
• Gentle posing direction when needed so you never feel stiff or awkward.
• Keeping family photos organized so they’re quick (and chaos-free).

These behind-the-scenes moments are what make the difference between a wedding that feels overwhelming – and one that feels effortless.

Why This Matters

Anyone can take a pretty photo. But not everyone can make you feel calm, supported, and fully present on your wedding day.

When you look back at your gallery, you won’t just remember how your day looked – you’ll remember how it felt. And that’s what makes your photos timeless.

Looking for a Photographer Who Gets It?

I photograph weddings across Texas (and beyond) with a documentary-meets-editorial approach – capturing the unposed, unrepeatable moments while keeping things easy and real.

See more about my wedding photography approach here.
Or, inquire about your date here.